Mothers Intuition

Have you ever had an instinct? An instinct that begins as a gnawing...Then grows into a raging burn; a burning instinct that something is wrong...

Your baby continues to get sick from the very foods he is supposed to thrive on. I did. I am a mom of a little boy just diagnosed with FPIES.

And that burning feeling now? Extinguished. My instincts? Stronger than ever. Guiding me, with my faith, as we navigate through the murky waters of our new world created by something called FPIES.

"Faith is not about everything turning out OK; Faith is about being OK no matter how things turn out."

Showing posts with label educate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label educate. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

Nutrition Care for FPIES

This is very near and dear to my heart, nutrition in FPIES.   The FPIES Foundation is doing a webinar on October 25, 2016 for Nutrition Professionals.  To learn more and register, go here.


Thursday, October 13, 2016

Honoring Global FPIES Day 2016!

Global FPIES Day happens on October 14th. Visit www.fpiesday.com for more information and to watch these video's on Global FPIES Day!  Little man and I are even in one (see Making Seed Milk)! "See" you there! 












Thursday, December 5, 2013

Little Man's "Faces of FPIES Spotlight" visit with Hope for Wyatt

When I first started blogging, among the reasons to do so was to share Little Man's story with others - to keep friends and family updated but also to help other families know some of the experiences we have had.  This blog, although I have written nearly 400 posts in 3.5years, is a mere fraction of what Little Man's FPIES is and looks like from day to day; and that is only a mere fraction of who HE is.  FPIES is a diagnosis, not a definition.

I wish I could share more, I wish I had more time to share more because I have always taken my time with my posts -- being very careful about what I put "out there".   There is so much to Little Man's story that would be scary to read if you didn't know his whole story, so my blogging has lagged behind.   Some would say (have said) that my posts here, sharing Little Man's experiences, are 'scary' in and of themselves, just for being what they are.   I wonder if those people think of what they are saying?   That a little boys life is scary? A sweet little boy only wanting what any other 2, 3, 4 year old boy would want from life -- to be happy, safe and loved.  I never intended telling his story would be 'scary' because his life isn't scary.   FPIES itself can be scary, not knowing how to help your child through the pain, symptoms and vomiting of the FPIES being "triggered", not knowing how to properly read a food label, or how to completely exposures of the 'trigger' food, not having adequate medical help when your child is sick,....these can be what is scary about FPIES.  But, they don't have to be.   One can learn how to read a food label, how to avoid a food trigger, how to avoid cross contamination triggered symptoms and reactions, how to advocate for your child with their medical team -- your partners in the care of your child.   Our son's experiences and life are not scary, FPIES can be scary but it doesn't need to be.   Empower yourself, help empower others, share what you learn, advocate -- help your family, friends and doctors learn about what FPIES looks like in your child and how to help keep them healthy and thriving in their individual environment.  Get help and support and know you are not alone.

I am not alone in our blogging, there are now several dozen blogs dedicated to FPIES from other families on this journey, sharing what they are learning, what FPIES looks like in their child, how it affects them and their family.  A friend I have 'met' on this journey, who recently started to journal her families journey with Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome on a blog, "Hope for Wyatt", asked me if I could share Little Man's story for a "Faces of FPIES Spotlight" she is doing on her blog.  Hop on over and read what we shared on "Meet Samuel", and "meet" Wyatt and his family while you're there.


Thursday, September 19, 2013

Advocacy

“I always thought someone should do something about that, then I realized I was someone.” ~ Lily Tomlin

FPIES and Advocacy are words that seem to go hand in hand.  Many times, for me, the word "over-advocate" has come to mind; but that is another story for another day.   Today, the story is on Advocacy in complex diagnosis.   Complex Child E-Magazine put a call out for parents who have advocacy stories to share them for their September edition, highlighting Advocacy.  As I mentioned above- I have a few on how I've had to advocate, and too many times, over-advocate for Little Man's needs (medical, physical, psychological, etc). All of these the inspiration to the one that I felt compelled to tell...the story of the beginning of The FPIES Foundation.  I wanted to help others feel empowered with the education and support they needed and to advocate where needed- for their children, for the diagnosis, for children that may follow in the spectrum of this diagnosis. No one should travel this journey alone.  A Foundation was needed, a Foundation I, along with 8 other moms and a community of families, created.  We created it to help families advocate for their little ones and their families within the challenging situations that a rare and little understood diagnosis of FPIES was, and remains yet.  A Foundation whose mission is woven into every ounce of our work, dedicated to offering tools for education, support and advocacy to empower families and the medical community.

You are invited to read more about the beginning of The Foundation for FPIES in the September edition of Complex Child: FPIES, The Formation of a Foundation.