FPIES stands for Food Protein Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome and our youngest son has it. This blog follows his story on this journey: our challenges, our triumphs, our adaptations as we navigate through this new world created by FPIES.
Mothers Intuition
Have you ever had an instinct? An instinct that begins as a gnawing...Then grows into a raging burn; a burning instinct that something is wrong...
Your baby continues to get sick from the very foods he is supposed to thrive on. I did. I am a mom of a little boy just diagnosed with FPIES.
And that burning feeling now? Extinguished. My instincts? Stronger than ever. Guiding me, with my faith, as we navigate through the murky waters of our new world created by something called FPIES.
"Faith is not about everything turning out OK; Faith is about being OK no matter how things turn out."
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Tube Feeding Awareness Week 2014: Nothing Can Hold Us Back
Thursday, December 5, 2013
Little Man's "Faces of FPIES Spotlight" visit with Hope for Wyatt
I wish I could share more, I wish I had more time to share more because I have always taken my time with my posts -- being very careful about what I put "out there". There is so much to Little Man's story that would be scary to read if you didn't know his whole story, so my blogging has lagged behind. Some would say (have said) that my posts here, sharing Little Man's experiences, are 'scary' in and of themselves, just for being what they are. I wonder if those people think of what they are saying? That a little boys life is scary? A sweet little boy only wanting what any other 2, 3, 4 year old boy would want from life -- to be happy, safe and loved. I never intended telling his story would be 'scary' because his life isn't scary. FPIES itself can be scary, not knowing how to help your child through the pain, symptoms and vomiting of the FPIES being "triggered", not knowing how to properly read a food label, or how to completely exposures of the 'trigger' food, not having adequate medical help when your child is sick,....these can be what is scary about FPIES. But, they don't have to be. One can learn how to read a food label, how to avoid a food trigger, how to avoid cross contamination triggered symptoms and reactions, how to advocate for your child with their medical team -- your partners in the care of your child. Our son's experiences and life are not scary, FPIES can be scary but it doesn't need to be. Empower yourself, help empower others, share what you learn, advocate -- help your family, friends and doctors learn about what FPIES looks like in your child and how to help keep them healthy and thriving in their individual environment. Get help and support and know you are not alone.
I am not alone in our blogging, there are now several dozen blogs dedicated to FPIES from other families on this journey, sharing what they are learning, what FPIES looks like in their child, how it affects them and their family. A friend I have 'met' on this journey, who recently started to journal her families journey with Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome on a blog, "Hope for Wyatt", asked me if I could share Little Man's story for a "Faces of FPIES Spotlight" she is doing on her blog. Hop on over and read what we shared on "Meet Samuel", and "meet" Wyatt and his family while you're there.
Sunday, December 1, 2013
FPIES Registry!!
Saturday, November 9, 2013
FPIES: The Hidden Scourge of GI Food Allergies. Today's Dietitian Article
Be sure to check it out!
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Advocacy
You are invited to read more about the beginning of The Foundation for FPIES in the September edition of Complex Child: FPIES, The Formation of a Foundation.
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Dear Sarah, I just didn't know about FPIES. Food Allergy Awareness Week 2013: A Guest Post
If I had known that you could look adorable on the outside, but be very sick on the inside, I would have known how much you needed me to help you.
If I had known that your newborn tears were from pain, I would have complained less about being up all night.
If I had known that feeding you baby food would put your life at risk, I wouldn't have spent all day trying to get you to eat it.
If I had known that you were desperately trying to tell me it hurt your body to eat noodles, I wouldn't have made you finish them before I got you out of your highchair.
If I had known that you had no other way to tell me that you were suffering, I wouldn't have punished you for hitting me.
If I would have known that you didn't just "get the flu" more than other kids, I would have questioned the doctors more.
If I would have known that your tantrums were a cry for help, I wouldn't have let people label you with a "behavior problem".
If I would have known how close we were to losing you, I wouldn't have wasted time brushing my teeth before taking you to the hospital.
If I would have known that the cookie I gave you at lunchtime could make you throw up 4 hours later, I wouldn't have gave it to you.
If I would have known that food allergies don't always show up on allergy test, I would have tried an elimination diet earlier.
If I would have known that anaphylaxis is not the only kind of life threatening allergy out there, I would have demanded faster treatment at the E.R.
If I would have known that your vomiting, bloody diarrhea, screaming, constipation, hair loss, pale color and passing out was from food, I would have eased your pain sooner.
If I would have known the juice I was mixing your medication into was the reason you were constipated, bleeding rectally, malnourished, vomiting, and bloated in first place, I would wouldn't have force fed it to you.
If I would have known that pediatricians, children's hospitals, specialist, and feeding clinics could all be wrong, I would have sought help elsewhere.
If I would have known that there were other kids like you out there, I would have tracked down their families and compared stories sooner.
If I would have known that the scopes weren't going to show much because the prep for the scope is to stop all FOOD days before the test, I wouldn't have put you through it.
If I would have known that not all kids with FPIES outgrow it, I would have prepared better for the long haul.
If I would have known that some kids have NO safe foods, I would have been less freaked out about only having 27 safe foods.
If I would have known that not all ingredients are listed on labels, since you can never be sure how each ingredient is derived, I would have called food companies earlier.
If I would have known, if the doctors would have known, if anyone I rambled on to would have known, it wouldn't have taken 6 years to diagnose you.
If I would have known that at 7 years old you would be in so much pain and feel so "not normal" that I would overhear you pray to go to heaven early, I would have explained sooner that there is no such thing as normal and reassured you that it will get better someday.
If I would have known how embarrassed you are about a medical need to wear pull-ups at 8 years old, I wouldn't have waited to tell you that I was a bed wetter until 5th grade.
If I would have known how isolating, scary, confusing, frustrating, and financially debilitating it is for families living with fpies, I would have reached out to give and receive help sooner.
If I would have known how many well-meaning people would offer you treats, I would have stopped them before you realized you were missing out.
If I would have known how many good people we have in our community, I would have asked for help sooner.
If I would have known there was a place we could get information, support and understanding, I would have contacted thefpiesfoundation.org sooner.
If I would have known you were suffering from food multiple food allergies, I would have found you help sooner, saw you smile more, and kept you safer. Because I love you, because you are my child, because we are in this together, we will be okay.
Love,
mommy
Please spread the word. It is Food Allergy Awareness Week and these kids and their families don't need to suffer. This is a rare type of reaction to food, and most of the medical community are not aware of it, or don't clearly understand all the symptoms.
If you ever asked how you could help or if you know and love Sarah, please repost this, like this or whatever....after all, I did just tell you that I peed my bed until fifth grade. :)
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Awareness is Action! Food Allergy Awareness Week 2013
In the beginning of this journey, I was privileged to have a pediatrician for our boys that was good about knowing what ways she could empower me. One of those ways was (and some may not understand this but thankfully she understood enough about me to know I needed it)....was to say she was stumped. After week upon week of bringing Little Man in to her office, repeated visits for new symptoms or to review current symptoms, practically begging and often crying for help, thinking that if I just told her about this new symptom or did I forget to mention that incident; will I get closer to some answer she in her knowledge and experience, is considering? Then, one day, she sat down and said, "I just don't know". Words probably easier for me to hear than for her to say (yes, words easier for me to hear). I remember that day still so well because it changed my thinking, it changed me from waiting for someone to have an answer, to me finding an answer. It empowered me. She didn't know, but I did. I didn't know about FPIES then; but I knew my son, and I knew something wasn't right. I would research day and night,and write down everything,and read every journal article I could get a hold of (which was only less than a dozen at that time).
Once we did finally find the diagnosis, I entered support groups, and I found myself surrounded by families in so many similar situations. The need to be empowered to know how to care for this child with this rare, little understood allergy is so great, it is so needed. A mother has the intuition to care for her child from before they are even born....a connection so deep- poetic words (that I do not have) can only begin to describe. What we don't know instinctively we instinctively know where/how to learn. But then, your child has this allergy that doesn't follow any rules and that robs you of the basic need to nourish them and you feel like you're standing alone and your toolbox is empty, or the tools you have in it don't fit at all and you lose time trying to use them, trying to make them fit.
So, during Food Allergy Awareness week, above other times in the year, my awareness is increased and I hope yours is too, and you will help spread the information about Food Protein Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome so that more families and more medical providers, are empowered to learn more, and become equipped with some basic tools for thriving through this disordered allergy of the gastrointestinal system.
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Sharing our story....
From June of 2010 to today, August 29, 2012; I have logged 385 posts (and yet I'm still months behind) and have had over 35,000 page views (wish I would've figured out how to put that little page ticker on my footer at the beginning); it's been humbling to see how many have followed and shared in our story. Sharing our story has become an important part of this ride, as others have done before and beside me- it helps.
"When you stand and share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else" Iyanla Vanzant.
With the busy-ness of 4 boys and summer, the complexities of FPIES, and my work with The FPIES Foundation, I have been a little more absent from updates, but do promise they are coming. I've been keeping a journal as we go through this muddy mess we've been in with little man's FPIES as he approaches and passes 3yrs.old and still stuck, still adding new triggers and not outgrowing old ones...the updates are coming! Overall, he is doing well, growing and gaining weight and meeting developmental milestones, and continuing to teach us about patience and appreciation for God's simple gifts in life.
In the meantime, I would be honored if you would check out the new website for The FPIES Foundation. It is a 'labor of love', a resource packed with tools for new families and struggling families, a place to share stories and find support - a network of caring. A place to come home. We are not alone.
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
How to Help an FPIES Family
We are so fortunate that our friends and family have been so incredibly supportive through the many stages of this journey. Family, long time friends, new FPIES friends and even those whom we know nothing about.... There have been times when I read an anonymous comment on this blog and wonder if that person even realizes the impact of their kind and supportive words. There have been times when we have received anonymous and not-to-anonymous donations to help us through some rough times providing for a family through a chronic and rare illness. How do I even convey what these gestures- no matter how seemingly simple they may seem to the giver, mean to me- to us. Nothing goes unnoticed or unappreciated when the small things are the big things- like an illness that takes away your ability to feed your child.
If you're looking for a way to help and need some idea's, please read How to Help an FPIES Family Today
And thank you for all you do for our family, for your kind words, for your prayers, for your positive thoughts and comments left on this blog and sent in e-mails, and for the monetary donations for our family or for The FPIES Foundation to help them help other families, and for the time spent helping us with our other boys, and for the RV loaned for the long travel to specialists, and for the weekend (and longer!) visits to help watch our boys, and for helping purchase the Vitamix that now makes Little Mans' food every.single.day, and for the grocery help,and for the acceptance of our restricted schedule and our special needs to keep Little Man safe, for the care packages sent to his brothers- especially when he is in the hospital and our attention is so divided and energy drained; and for watching our boys while we go to appointments for Little Man or picking them up from the bus, and just for simply understanding the adjustments we have made to help our Little Man thrive, and for multitude of other ways you have helped!
Monday, February 27, 2012
From Rare Disease Day website:
"A disease or disorder is defined as rare in the USA when it affects fewer than 200,000 Americans at any given time.
• 80% of rare diseases have identified genetic origins whilst others are the result of infections (bacterial or viral), allergies and environmental causes, or are degenerative and proliferative.
• 50% of rare diseases touch children.
Characteristics of rare diseases
The 6000 to 8000 rare diseases are characterised by a broad diversity of disorders and symptoms that vary not only from disease to disease but also from patient to patient suffering from the same disease.
Relatively common symptoms can hide underlying rare diseases leading to misdiagnosis and delaying treatment. Quintessentially disabling, the patients quality of life is affected by the lack or loss of autonomy due to the chronic, progressive, degenerative, and frequently life-threatening aspects of the disease.
The fact that there are often no existing effective cures adds to the high level of pain and suffering endured by patients and their families.
Common problems faced
The lack of scientific knowledge and quality information on the disease often results in a delay in diagnosis. Also the need for appropriate quality health care engenders inequlities and difficulties in access to treatment and care. This often results in heavy social and financial burdens on patients.
As mentioned, due to the broad diversity of disorders and relatively common symptoms which can hide underlying rare diseases, initial misdiagnosis is common. In addition symptoms differ not only from disease to disease, but also from patient to patient suffering from the same disease.
How can things change?
Although rare disease patients and their families face many challenges, enormous progress is being made every day.
The ongoing implementation of a better comprehensive approach to rare diseases has led to the development of appropriate public health policies. Important gains continue to be made with the increase of international cooperation in the field of clinical and scientific research as well as the sharing of scientific knowledge about all rare diseases, not only the most “recurrent” ones. Both of these advances have led to the development of new diagnostic and therapeutic procedures.
However, the road ahead is long with much progress to be made.
Get involved!
The FPIES Foundation is participating in Rare Disease Day all week!
Saturday, February 25, 2012
About FPIES
Maybe it was because of our struggles to find practitioners experienced in FPIES to help us with our son's FPIES or maybe it was the healthcare professional in me, but I couldn't help but see this from both sides- from both needs- medical professionals need support and shared experiences just as much as the families to help other families. I began to see how useful it would be to have the information- this golden information in this amazing support group that I was learning so much from- to be collected, compiled and centralized not only for the mother in the middle of the night searching for answers, help and support but also for the medical professional to find a resource to turn to to help these same families. The support groups are a safe and comforting place for families and it is truly an amazing thing to be a part of- the families in these support groups are like no other community I have belonged to, the passing along of information, experiences, insights into what they have learned and observed and connected for their child, in the small hopes that it could help another new mom whose journey is just beginning, or a mom who has hit a bump and is struggling, or someone looking for a new recipe or tips to coping with this chronic illness.
A clinical diagnosis can benefit from a collaboration of experiences, a foundation for FPIES. And now, when you look up FPIES, the resources are many and growing. Now, you can find an easy to read and understand (and share!) article About FPIES.
About FPIES
A Collaboration Between The FPIES Foundation's Board of Directors and Medical Advisory Board
| Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome (FPIES) is a type of food allergy affecting the gastrointestinal (GI) tract. Classic symptoms of FPIES include profound vomiting, diarrhea, and dehydration. These symptoms can lead to severe lethargy, change in body temperature and blood pressure. Unlike typical food allergies, symptoms may not be immediate and do not show up on standard allergy tests. Furthermore, the negative allergy evaluation may delay the diagnosis and take the focus off the causative food. Nonetheless, FPIES can present with severe symptoms following ingestion of a food trigger. | ||
| FPIES Common Symptoms: | ||
| There are two ways that infants or children with FPIES might come to medical attention. | ||
1. The classic pattern of an FPIES reaction is when a healthy infant or child develops symptoms shortly after eating a food. There is a characteristic delay of 2-3 hours before onset of severe and repetitive vomiting and eventually diarrhea. The child may appear very ill and sleepy (lethargic), and may become pale or blue. When evaluated by a doctor, he/she may be found to have low blood pressure, seem dehydrated, and have blood tests that mimic infection (sepsis); which in some cases can lead to sepsis-like shock. Many infants who are eventually diagnosed with FPIES are initially suspected to have a severe infection or sepsis. 2. The second common pattern of FPIES reaction symptoms occurs when infants who are ingesting a problem food (usually milk or soy-based formula or proteins in breast milk) as a consistent part of their diet might experience increasingly severe vomiting, diarrhea, and poor growth, possibly progressing to an illness mimicking a severe total-body infection. Please note that each child is unique and your child may experience their own range and intensity of these symptoms. | ||
| FPIES Common Triggers: | ||
In the first months of life, FPIES reactions are most often caused by cow’s milk protein formula, and sometimes by soy. Proteins in breast milk may also cause symptoms in some infants. For infants experiencing FPIES with solid foods, rice and oats are the most common triggers. Current research reports other common triggers that include, but are not limited to, milk, soy, barley, poultry, peas, green beans, sweet potatoes, and squash. However, any food protein can be a trigger and some infants may be sensitive to other foods as well. In addition, some children may react to one or two foods whereas others may experience reactions to multiple foods. | ||
| FPIES Diagnosis and Testing: | ||
FPIES is a non-IgE food allergy, which unlike classic food allergy, cannot be diagnosed with readily available food allergy tests such as skin prick test (SPT) or blood test that measure food IgE antibodies (RAST). These tests are helpful to identify triggers for typical food allergies that result in immediate hives, wheezing, and swelling and are characteristically negative in FPIES. An FPIES diagnosis is usually made by considering the history of the characteristic symptoms and exclusion of various alternative illnesses. A medical doctor, often an allergist and/or gastroenterologist, should be involved in making the diagnosis. Although Atopy Patch testing (APT) is often used for FPIES patients, it is not considered a validated test for FPIES diagnosis. Blood tests performed during a reaction may be helpful since the results often mimic the body’s response to infection. The most definitive test is a medically supervised oral food challenge (OFC)-where the suspect food is given to the child in a controlled clinical environment. An oral food challenge, however, is not often needed initially if the doctor has excluded alternative illnesses and the medical history is consistent with FPIES. | ||
| FPIES Treatment and Course: | ||
FPIES reactions can be severe. It is important to get to prompt medical attention where treatment, such as fluids given into the vein to help stabilize blood pressure and treat dehydration, can be given in order to avoid sepsis-like shock. Although some doctors prescribe epinephrine to stabilize blood pressure before medical treatment, the main therapy is to get intravenous fluids; also steroids can be used to quell the immune reaction. Preparing a letter for potential trips to the ER, containing both FPIES information and a list of your child's triggers, may be helpful. Unfortunately, there are currently no simple tests for FPIES. The primary test, as mentioned above, is a medically supervised oral food challenge with the trigger food. The good news is that FPIES usually resolves with time. Your child will need to be closely followed by his/her doctor to discuss what foods are safe to eat and when it may be time to determine if FPIES has resolved. With proper medical attention and a personalized dietary plan to ensure proper nutrition, children with FPIES can grow and thrive. | ||
Additional Useful Resources 1. Caubet, J.;Nowak-Wegrzyn, A. Current Understanding of the Immune Mechanisms of FPIES. Expert Review.Clinical Immunology. 2011; 7(3), 317-327. 2. Jyonouchi, H. Non-IgE Food Allergy. Inflammation & Allergy. Drug Target. 2008; 7(3): 1-7. 3. Nowak-Wegrzyn, A.; Sampson, H.A.; Wood, R.A.; Sicherer, S.H. Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome Caused by Solid Food Proteins. PEDIATRICS April 2003; 111 (4): 829-835. 4. Sampson HA, Anderson JA. Summary and recommendations: classification of gastrointestinal manifestations due to immunologic reactions to foods in infants and young children. J. Pediatr. Gastroenterol. Nutr. 30(Suppl.), S87–S94 (2000). 5. Giovanna M., et al. Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome by cow’s milk proteins passed through breast milk. The Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology. March 2011; 127 (3): 679-80. | ||
Thursday, February 2, 2012
News Article
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
FPIES Fundraiser at The Pizza Ranch!!
This past spring, my sister held a benefit for our little man. It was extremely successful in that it raised a lot of awareness in our home town community, 3 local newspapers did articles, people wrote to us from reading those articles, and of course people attended the benefit to meet our little man and ask their questions and learn about what FPIES means to him, and our family. At that same time, in the spirit of raising awareness, I also booked "Tip Night" at a local Pizza Ranch to raise awareness in the community we live in now. Unfortunately, we had to reschedule that as Little Man's needs were too high at that time, so we postponed it for this fall. It became scheduled for Oct.24th. Of course little man's needs have not slowed down much, but I decided we needed to go ahead with it anyway. We were blessed to have friends that were able to help- help advertise it and help work at it; because little man was actually in the hospital the week prior to the fundraiser!
The FPIES Foundation helped in making an announcement flyer for it, that a neighborly friend helped hang up around town.
It was a great event. Pizza Ranch has a program built in for non-profit fundraiser events such as this. It is called "Tip Night". You bring the waiters, you earn the tips.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Fully Rely on God
The day had gotten so long, and I was so weary. I even went to bed "early" (9.30)- just didn't have any more to give, my babies were all sleeping, so I gave everything to God- assured that I would wake up refreshed and renewed, that God would give me the strength to keep fighting this fight....to keep fighting for our Little man's voice, and not only his voice but the voice of so many other kids who experience many of the same symptoms he does with foods- symptoms that don't fall into where the research has been for FPIES, symptoms we're not sure if/when the research will cover; but more and more I read and learn about these symptoms being recognized and tied together. I am hopeful. Research takes years, and it takes multiple studies to create evidenced based medicine from. FPIES research will benefit most from multiple Food Allergy Clinics and Research centers as well as published papers from physicians learning about this horrible food allergy. It is comforting to know that there are already food allergy clinics all over this country, doing active research right now. Doctors all over the country (and world) are learning more about FPIES, and really good and compassionate doctors are recognizing they need to learn even more. I continue to be in awe and amazement over the compassion so many good doctors have with this illness.
FPIES children now can, and do, teach doctors just as much as research will in the future and we can be their voice to help. That has been a piece of my "fight" for my Little man's FPIES for quite some time....when some doctors shot us down turn after turn, after turn- telling us he wasn't really "that" sick, or not sick at all, or even suggesting on multiple occasions that it was just me- even trying to see if his daddy would tell a different 'story'- because it really couldn't be that bad with the foods we were trying to give him, or the formula that 99% of kids tolerate and grow and thrive on.
I believe God is giving me this learning experience, (with my mouth and resolve) to use our experiences to help other children. I believe I had a "calling" to the nutrition profession, for my boys. I believe if we maintain our resolve, we can help our physicians learn one by one, about this horrible diagnosis. Personally, my resolve is to take it a step further, hearing the voices in the support groups I have been a part of (and have become a part of me), into my work with The FPIES Foundation. These kids and families need the help now, the research needs to come from as many Food Allergy clinics as it can, and of extreme importance- the awareness needs to be raised....not only to the existence of FPIES so that every practitioner that has heard of it thinks they understand it from the research that is out so far; but that they hear from the voices of the children living through it right now....that voice can be unified and magnified in The FPIES Foundation....a place for support, education and empowerment.
Now, why did I name this FROG's? My 4yr.old's first day of preschool was yesterday. The concept they learned was FROG: Full Rely On God. It was the message I needed. A gentle reminder that He is in care of everything. "....above all, remember....act as if everything depended upon you, and pray as if everything depended on God" (SH Payer). I pray everyday (and continue to ask for prayers from everyone) to give our Little Man the health he needs to thrive, and his daddy and I the graces for strength, wisdom and resolve.
Full Rely On God....simply concepts, vast meaning.


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